It goes beyond just dating. Modern life is just gamified now. It’s all algorithms, likes, reach on these platforms kind of controlling our destinies in a way. I’ve started searching for a new job and that is no different - I just need a LinkedIn presence now. And opting out to various extents just hinders some opportunities. You can’t completely disconnect unless you’re gonna go full on monk mode.
I’ve never really eaten much pesto though. Id be down to try that.
They still have some of those around (speed dating/mixers) but I gotta say, the modern equivalents don’t seem to measure up to how great I’m told they were in the past. But my experiences there are a tale for a future issue…
There is no telling what the other Rick did to her. I haven't met very many Ricks on my travels but I've usually found them to be pretty amicable. I can't be held responsible for the actions of the bad ones but maybe I can bring it up in the next meeting.
Thank you so much Rick for keeping us updated on your dating app journey. I really love your self-awareness. You know what sparks your interest and what doesn’t.
I grew up in an Italian family, so my go-to dish is homemade lasagna from scratch. Lately, I’ve been exploring new recipes, so that might change soon. I’ve tried dating apps recently, but my experience wasn’t great, so I decided to take a break. The algorithm-driven approach can feel limiting at times.
Also, I just have to say again how much I enjoy your article voiceovers. They’re perfect to listen to while I work on things in the evening.
It’s important to know what you want! The app experience is very up and down. Sometimes it seems like it’s all going super well, other times it’s like standing in a desert of options. Just one of those fluctuations you gotta learn to deal with.
I haven’t had lasagna in forever! Sounds like it’d be a hell of a dinner given your long line of experience. And thank you for the support!
Ugh. I’d hate to post a personal CV with a headshot. Dating apps are like a clever contest. But I guess there’s a bit of that on Substack.
I make a yummy homemade pesto.
It goes beyond just dating. Modern life is just gamified now. It’s all algorithms, likes, reach on these platforms kind of controlling our destinies in a way. I’ve started searching for a new job and that is no different - I just need a LinkedIn presence now. And opting out to various extents just hinders some opportunities. You can’t completely disconnect unless you’re gonna go full on monk mode.
I’ve never really eaten much pesto though. Id be down to try that.
Algorithms. Jeez. What ever happened to Singles Night at the Temple/Church/Town hall…?
They still have some of those around (speed dating/mixers) but I gotta say, the modern equivalents don’t seem to measure up to how great I’m told they were in the past. But my experiences there are a tale for a future issue…
I enjoyed all of this but I'm also very curious about the person who no longer dates Ricks or Richards!
There is no telling what the other Rick did to her. I haven't met very many Ricks on my travels but I've usually found them to be pretty amicable. I can't be held responsible for the actions of the bad ones but maybe I can bring it up in the next meeting.
Thank you so much Rick for keeping us updated on your dating app journey. I really love your self-awareness. You know what sparks your interest and what doesn’t.
I grew up in an Italian family, so my go-to dish is homemade lasagna from scratch. Lately, I’ve been exploring new recipes, so that might change soon. I’ve tried dating apps recently, but my experience wasn’t great, so I decided to take a break. The algorithm-driven approach can feel limiting at times.
Also, I just have to say again how much I enjoy your article voiceovers. They’re perfect to listen to while I work on things in the evening.
It’s important to know what you want! The app experience is very up and down. Sometimes it seems like it’s all going super well, other times it’s like standing in a desert of options. Just one of those fluctuations you gotta learn to deal with.
I haven’t had lasagna in forever! Sounds like it’d be a hell of a dinner given your long line of experience. And thank you for the support!
You're so welcome! I'm looking forward to your updates!